Embracing Authenticity & Realness



Many people hide behind secrets, striving to be like someone else. The irony is that it’s easier to be yourself, yet many feel compelled to imitate others. People often try to escape their past, but it inevitably catches up with them. To fit in, many put up facades, masking their true selves out of fear—fear of judgment, ridicule, and rejection. They suppress the qualities that make them unique, trading authenticity for social approval, status, and power gained through intimidation.

Wearing this mask may feel like protection, but it also conceals their real identity. Everyone experiences judgment, especially when their actions don’t align with their words. But those with “real eyes” can see through the lies. I believe in transparency, and where others fear showing their true selves, I embrace mine with authenticity. It is my strength, and I wield it freely. Hiding behind a mask would suffocate me.

Not everyone will accept you, and that’s okay. People gossip about others’ successes and failures because they can’t face their own truth. But if you are honest about who you are, no one holds the power to judge you. You know your worth.


You were born to be real, not perfect.
You are here to be yourself, not to live for someone else. – Ria Johnson

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